Your relationship map
Encrypted on your device18+No judgment
What you lived through can teach you.
Sort through your memories, spot patterns and discover what makes a relationship work for you.
Encrypted on your device18+No judgment
Only you can see this.Names and scores are encrypted on this device before they are stored.
How does it work?The community is growing
More memories, more perspective
Live activity from people using Rate Your Ex to understand their relationship patterns.
Personal ranking
Your exes, without drama
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What people value
A private space that feels light
Short notes from people who use the app to turn memories into useful perspective.
“It helped me see patterns without turning the process into a trial. Clear, kind and genuinely private.”
“The weighted ranking puts words to what I really need in a relationship. The avatars make it feel much lighter.”
“I love that everything sensitive is encrypted before it leaves my device. I can reflect without feeling observed.”
“Simple on mobile, surprisingly deep when you start comparing priorities. It gave me a much calmer perspective.”